Giving Thanks Challenge ~ {Day #14}

Thanksgiving Challenge ~ Day #14

Topic: Noelle
Title: A Special Letter

{If you are new to this challenge~which is not your typical Thanksgiving challenge, you can catch up on the details here, and please feel free to join along at any time...}

As the submissions for Noelle's birthday book have been arriving in our inbox, it has been humbling for me to once again be reminded of how many people have loved and prayed so earnestly for our little girl.  Some are friends from years past, others for only a short time.  They hail from all corners of the globe; and there are many whom we have never met face to face, but the miracle of Noelle and the bond of Christ have created a connection.  Whether a short note of prayer or a long letter filled with memories, each submission is precious to us as we create this memory book that is so dear to our hearts.  I have realized that this book is not for Noelle alone, not even for our family alone.  These notes and letters, written with careful thought and much love, are a reminder of God's continuing miracles and grace in this life.  So as some have requested, we will be sharing the submissions from time to time so that all may be encouraged by them.  We truly appreciate each and every one and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for the time and love you have so graciously poured into this effort.  Tonight, I share one that we received today that immediately transported me back to the moment Noelle was born and the incredible uncertainty mixed with both joy and sorrow that were felt that day.  As I read this, tears filled my eyes and clogged my throat, and I was reminded once again of the amazing grace and miracle that God granted to us.  We are so very blessed...

Birthday Book Submission from Christina Burton, RN (FMC NICU):

~Christie & Christina (Our OR NICU nurses) holding Noelle on Discharge Day~

 

Dear Sweet Noelle,

I was one of the RNs in the OR the day you were born.  I had been updated on your mother’s history and what had been going on during her pregnancy.  What I “assumed” was that you would be delivered and after you were assessed by the NICU team, we would give you to your parents so that they would hold you while you passed away.  Because of your estimated size at birth, I “assumed “  we would not be able to maintain your life with the equipment we had in the NICU. 

Your birthday was yet another day in my life that has taught me that I cannot “assume” anything when God is in charge.  You were so very tiny when the OB surgeon lifted you from your mother’s uterus.  I stood at a distance while Dr. Tatum and other members of the NICU team began working with you.  I would be lying if I said that I thought you would make it out of the OR alive……I truly “assumed” that you were too small.  As the team continued to work on you, I saw you move around and heard you make a very small cry.    Dr. Tatum succeeded in getting you intubated and we took you to your bed spot in NIC1, bed 3.  I will admit that again I did not believe that you would survive much longer once we got you to the NICU.  I didn’t feel like the equipment could sustain your tiny body.  How anyone was ever able to insert an umbilical line in your cord I did not understand at that time.  I must admit that during your admission (done by your admit nurse Amanda Lamm RN) I questioned whether we were doing the right thing.  I knew that your parents had already been told that you would probably not survive in utereo much less survive long outside the womb.  I wondered if it would be easier if you had passed away right after birth rather than get your parents’ hopes up, and then they possibly have to make difficult decisions about what to do.

As the days went by and I got to know you and your wonderful parents, I realized that my “assuming” was wrong.  You got very sick and gave the NICU staff and your family many scares.  But through it all, I grew to love you and pray for you to survive.  I learned more about your story and what a gift from God you really were.  I learned about the love your parents share and the love they had for you, even before you were born….no matter what.  What I had “assumed” after many years of working in the NICU was all proved wrong.  I had lost sight, those many years in the NICU making me somewhat jaded and hardened at times, that miracles do happen every day.  You Noelle, are a true miracle.  A miracle from God, given to two of the most God loving people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. 

I am so glad I was in that OR the day you were born.  I am glad I got to know you and your parents.  I am glad that you survived against all kinds of odds and “assumptions”.  I am glad that God is using you and your parents as a living testament of His love for us all and for the power of prayer. 

Noelle, I am grateful that you and your parents came in to my life.  I feel privileged to have been a part of the beginning of your life.  I know that God is always present in my life, but I am so thankful that you came along to remind me to not “assume” and to remember that ultimately, no matter what, God is in charge!  Funny how a little 12.55oz miracle baby has helped bring so many people to God and open up their hearts to allow Him in.

I look forward to continuing to watch you grow and cannot wait to see what else God has in store for you and all of those around you!

Love,

Christina Burton RN

Forsyth Medical Center

NICU

***There are only 2 days left to submit your entry for the book project for Noelle's birthday.  You can read about the project and the deadline by clicking here .  We are putting the book together and enjoying the submissions we have already received but would love to hear from you, if you are willing to participate.  Thank you so much for helping us make Noelle's first birthday a special time of remembrance!!***